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Some of our Urdu students take classes online from a distance. Yet, many of our Urdu learners come from abroad to Pakistan and take classes in person. For those who have never lived in Pakistan or a place similar, there is a usual process of adjustment to the new environment – the new customs, clothes, sights, sounds, smells, languages, norms, and so on.
When a newcomer first arrives, every thing is exciting with so many new and different experiences. But then suddenly you are bothered by a certain smell or overwhelmed by a sound that previously never bothered you. But do not worry! You are going through what many before you have experienced: culture shock.
The stages of culture shock include:
- The Honeymoon Phase
- Cultural Crisis
- The Low Point
- Acceptance, Adjustment, & Integration
- Re-Entry Shock
By having proper expectations about culture shock, it helps normalize an overwhelming experience. It can feel quite alarming to go from loving your new surroundings to then hit a wall of confusion, stress, annoyance, and even aversion to the culture.
We have personally seen our students go through these ups and downs, especially after the first few months of arrival. Be assured this rollercoaster of emotions and experience in a new culture is normal, and with perseverance and commitment to growth, you can adjust and come to appreciate aspects of the culture. Many students have stayed in Pakistan for months and years and are well-adjusted and enjoying life here.
Also note the curve experience is not always so neat and tidy. There can be extra unexpected ups and downs based on your specific situation. There is also sometimes a reverse culture shock when re-entering your home culture (see #5). What is beautiful is that you grow tremendously as a person and in your perspectives through going through these phases.
Often our Urdu classes are a help in getting out of the Low Point stage because you’re able to relationally connect with locals with the language and cultural knowledge acquired in class. The teacher is also a safe bridge into the Pakistani community and culture. We have found that the teacher-student bonding in this context is particularly helpful for getting through culture transitions.
We invite you to learn Urdu whether from a distance or in Pakistan. If you do come to Pakistan, remember that culture shock is normal and expected and you can grow through it and adjust well. We are also here to help and encourage you along the way!
Learn Urdu with us today. We have classes ranging from Urdu basics to customized advanced Urdu courses.